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Effective Leadership Development: If the way you lead is the answer, what was the question?

Sep 8
3 min read

Updated: Sep 24

Great Leadership Starts with Yourself

In today’s competitive business world, developing effective leaders plays a crucial role in an organisation’s long-term success. Leaders are often required to make difficult decisions and have challenging conversations. Expectations need to be clarified, conflicts navigated, and people with different perspectives brought together. At the same time, leaders are expected to provide direction, enable performance, and remain approachable for their teams.

And somewhere in between, one question remains: How do I actually want to lead?

For me, this is where leadership development begins.

Because great leadership is not simply about being highly competent in your field or having many years of professional experience. Leadership is, above all, about working with people – and therefore with different needs, expectations, strengths, and perspectives.


From “I Have to Lead” to “How Do I Want to Lead?”

Leadership is often described in terms of competencies: communication, decision-making, conflict management, strategic thinking, or delegation.

All of these are important. But behind every one of these competencies is a person.

How do I respond to pressure? What happens to me when someone challenges my decision? Which of my strengths am I already using consciously? Where might I be getting in my own way? And how does my behaviour actually affect others?

Questions like these move beyond a purely methodological view of leadership and towards self-reflection.

Because if you want to lead others, you should also be willing to continuously reflect on yourself.

This does not mean having a perfect answer to every question as a leader. Quite the opposite: good leadership can also mean being comfortable with uncertainty, asking questions, admitting mistakes, and learning from them.


What Makes Good Leadership Possible – Positive Leadership

Recognising and Using Strengths

What strengths do I bring to the table – and what strengths do I see in my team? How can I make purposeful use of both? And where might I be overusing them?

Understanding Motivation

What gives people energy? What do they need to take responsibility and feel connected to their work?

Building Relationships

How is trust created? How can feedback be given in a way that creates psychological safety and supports growth and development?

Providing Direction

How clear are goals, expectations, and responsibilities? And how much space does this create for autonomy?

Enabling Development

How can I support employees in reaching beyond what they already know and can do, rather than simply providing them with solutions?

Looking in the Mirror

Where is it worth taking a critical look at my own behaviour? Where can I acknowledge mistakes and take responsibility?


Development Begins with a Good Question

What is already working well in my leadership – and where would I like to make a change?

Systemic coaching creates space to reflect on your leadership, recognise strengths and resources, and develop new ways of approaching challenges. It can also incorporate the perspective of the wider environment: leadership never takes place in isolation. It is always connected to the team, the organisation, and the conditions in which people work.

Feedback, mentoring, professional development, and self-reflection can further support this process of development. This is how reflection becomes tangible development.


From Personal Development to Organisational Impact

When a leader changes, something in their environment often changes as well.

A conversation is approached differently. A decision is communicated differently. A conflict is addressed earlier. Responsibility is distributed differently. Strengths are recognised more consciously. Small changes in leadership behaviour can therefore lead to meaningful changes in how people work together.


Leadership Is a Journey of Development

Leadership is a learning process – and that process does not end with stepping into your first leadership role. New teams, new challenges, organisational changes, or a shift in your own role continually bring new questions. And perhaps one of those questions could be:

“If the way you lead is the answer, what was the question?”

 
 

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